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In Nobody we trust

Trust is the cornerstone of healthy relationships

We've all experienced moments of doubt, questioning the intentions of those closest to us or grappling with our own insecurities. Trust issues can stem from various sources - past betrayals, abandonment, or even unresolved childhood experiences. Exploring attachment issues can help understand trust issues

Individuals who have secure attachments tend to trust others and are open to forming new relationships. They don’t spend time overanalyzing whether they'll be safe or if someone has negative intentions towards them. Often, people who find it difficult to trust others have an insecure attachment style, leading to feelings of anxiety and a struggle to trust, which can make them unwilling to engage in deep relationships. They may build surface-level connections that provide a sense of isolation or develop co-dependence with one person for a sense of safety. However, if there’s a rupture in that safe relationship, it can shatter their sense of self and leave them feeling lost.

For individuals with anxious or avoidant attachment styles, trust feels elusive, risky, and dangerous. Despite a need to be close and vulnerable, deep-seated fears of rejection and being unloved create barriers to connection. Consequently, maintaining distance may seem like a safer option.

One can develop different ways to star trusting themselves and others.

1 - Mindful Self-Reflection - Take time to reflect on your attachment style and how it influences your interactions with others. Notice patterns of behavior and identify triggers that evoke feelings of mistrust or insecurity.


2 - Open, honest communication -  is essential for building trust. Express your needs and concerns openly, while also actively listening to your partner's perspective. Validate each other's emotions and strive to cultivate a safe, non-judgmental space for dialogue.


3 - Setting Boundaries: Establishing clear boundaries fosters a sense of safety and predictability in relationships. Respect each other's boundaries and communicate openly about your comfort levels and expectations.


4 -  Seeking Professional Support: Sometimes, addressing trust issues may require professional guidance. A therapist trained in attachment theory can provide valuable insights and support in navigating complex relational dynamics. Look at help @ivomarquestherapy

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